Choices

Earlier I had chosen the title of this blog as "Dilemma". However, when I looked up the dictionary, for the meaning of Dilemma, it says this - "a situation requiring a choice between equally undesirable alternatives". I was looking for a word, which says,"equally desirable" rather than "undesirable". So I decided to pick the word Choices. Life is full of choices and sometimes it can bring unnecessary stress. Why is it that most of the time we worry about - what other people will feel? Is it alright if I do this. What will other people say? We try to keep everyone happy. Why? Why shouldn't we just keep ourselves happy?

I guess most of the Indians I have come across are like this. I am not sure why we are like this. I guess, may be it is because of our upbringing. I am not sure what is the right thing to do. Should someone always put his/her interest before anyone else or should he/she think worry about everyone else?

Sometimes I feel screw everyone, I should just think about my self. However, a little later I feel that it's not right. I am not sure in the end what is the right thing to do. But, I hope I am able to make the right decision for my family.